So anyway. Those of you who are friends with both of us already know that I am in Chicago staying at Zen and Pete's for I'm not sure how long. Obviously until they no longer need or want me here. Those of you who don't know, Zen is in the hospital right now facing a likely diagnosis of small cell lung cancer. She will get to come home soon (knock wood), and the business of tackling this bullshit will begin.

On the upside, Zen is still Zen and while everything about this sucks, there has been no shortage of laughter and fun and cookies and watching our reality shows and movies with appropriate commentary and doing what we do (good thing our mutual hobbies don't revolve around running marathons).

I keep trying to figure out what to say about all this, but it's mostly incoherent profanities. I guess I could tell you I quit smoking? I always wondered what it would take for that to happen since my own cancer didn't even manage it. But I cold turkey quit the second I heard about zen's chest x-ray and made a deal with the universe never to pick it back up again if it turned out to be nothing. I have incredibly angry words for the universe for backing out on that deal (I'm a superstitious atheist, okay). But even though the universe is a lying asshole, the quit remains and likely will forever because any time I even see a cigarette my reaction is intense loathing at the thing that is trying to kill my best friend even though she kicked it to the curb over three years ago, and even more rage at the people who make them. I want nothing to do with that bullshit. I wish I could feel more triumphant about finally quitting, but mostly I'm just sad.

So yeah. Fuck cancer with a rusty nail.
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From: [personal profile] laurashapiro

I'm so sorry, honey. Fuck cancer.
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From: [personal profile] grammarwoman

Kudos to you for quitting cigarettes, and a big boo to the universe for not appreciating it. Fuck cancer, indeed. *HUGS*
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From: [personal profile] dorinda

I'm so glad you're there with her. But I'm so angry and sorry for the reason why, and for the expertise on the topic that you yourself were forced to acquire. FUCK THAT SHIT.

Hugs to you, for immediate use or for storage for later, whichever you prefer.
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From: [personal profile] darthfangirl

Ugh, I'm so sorry. That's really shitty.
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From: [personal profile] king_touchy

I'm a superstitious atheist, too, and I'm sending my hopes and thoughts to you both. Fuck cancer.
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From: [personal profile] klia

I'm so glad you're able to be there for her and Pete. Like you, I can barely express my feelings with anything other than incoherent profanities.

*giant hugs to all of you*
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From: [personal profile] gwyn

Oh my god. I did not know about any of this, so thank you for updating us. I am so glad that you can be there for her and for Pete. But I also know how hard that is, and it's got to be even worse when you've been up that mountain and down the other side.

God I wish I could hug you both so hard.
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From: [personal profile] littleheaven

What can I say, but have this big pile of rusty nails. I'll give you a hand. ***HUG***
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From: [personal profile] heresluck

You know I love you both and am thinking of you often. I'm so glad you're there with her.
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From: [personal profile] nestra

Fuck it, and I'm fiercely hoping she kicks it in the ass like you did.
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From: [personal profile] the_shoshanna

Incoherent profanities pretty much covers it. I'm glad you guys are able to be there for each other. Hugs.
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From: [personal profile] shrift

Fuck cancer.

I quit smoking not too long after Zen quit, because in my mind, if Zen could do it, I had no excuse since I'd been thinking that I should stop for years. And now I'm angry at the universe too. Fuck you, universe! A debt is owed.


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